Welcome to DansTogether: joyful, connected first dance coaching
Hello lovely couples! I'm Danielle, and I'm absolutely thrilled to welcome you to DansTogether - my very exciting wedding dance coaching business. It’s a service I’ve created for engaged couples who want to share a meaningful first dance moment on the dance floor without the pressure of a big, choreographed routine.
Wedding days are full of so many magical moments - and your first dance will often be one of the most memorable. For some people this feels super exciting, for others (and the majority of couples I speak to) it can feel a bit intimidating. Many couples tell me that they feel awkward being in the spotlight, that they have two left feet, or that they just don’t have time to prepare for a first dance amongst all the wedding planning.
After twenty years of dance coaching and helping loads of wedding couples, I've learnt something important. Your first dance isn’t just a wedding tick box because tradition says so, it's about sharing a beautiful moment together, feeling connected and celebrating your love in a way that feels completely, authentically you.
Why I Created DansTogether
For as long as I can remember, I’ve loved helping people find confidence through dance. For the past ten years, I’ve been the go-to friend for couples who were feeling nervous about their first dance. People would message me and say, “Dan, you’re a dancer…can you show us a few bits so we’re not just shuffling on the spot?” Sometimes it was just a handful of helpful moves like a couple of twirls and a dip. Once it was an elaborate lift! And often, it was helping one confident dancer and one anxious partner find something they could enjoy together.
What started as a joyful favour quickly became something I looked forward to more than anything else. That’s why, after years in a corporate career, I decided to start DansTogether so I could help more couples feel calm, connected and quietly confident on their big day.
At DansTogether, perfection isn’t the goal: connection is. My approach is about guiding you in a way that feels natural, supportive, and fun, while offering practical tips and personalised, gentle choreography that works for your unique personalities and wedding style.
My Dance Philosophy
Let's be honest, the traditional dance school approach doesn't work for everyone. Rocking up to a dance school for lessons can feel intimidating when you’re already nervous, especially if other students are there too. Rigid choreography can make you feel more distracted to remember the routine than offer a romantic moment.
Sure, you could alternatively scroll through YouTube and find hundreds of first dance tutorials. But here’s the problem: they’re really generic and don’t know you or your partner, your song, your venue or what you’re wearing for your big day. They can also be overwhelming with too many options and little clarity on what level of experience is required.
This is where my DansTogether teaching philosophy is different. Instead of memorising a rigid routine, you'll learn a few simple, reliable moves that become your anchor points. Think of it as ‘freestyle with a safety net’! These are moves you can always return to if you feel lost or nervous. But between these anchor points? That's where the magic happens, natural movement, genuine connection, and space to just be together. Just enough choreography to feel ready. Just enough freedom to feel real.
During our sessions, I'll guide you through moves that suit your vibe, your song, and your comfort level. Feeling nervous? We'll focus on calming techniques. Short on time? We'll create something beautiful in just one or two sessions. Want something with a bit more flair or a few showstopper moves? We can add those special moments that make your guests smile. Our flexible packages mean you can choose what works for your timeline and budget.
We can do our sessions wherever feels most comfortable and relaxed - whether it’s your living room, garden, at a local space (I can recommend some) or even online.
Here's how it works:
A few simple, reliable moves — that you can fall back on no matter what song you choose
Moving together naturally — gentle leading and following that keeps you connected, even if nerves kick in
Feeling more at ease — how to start strong, handle the spotlight, and enjoy the moment
Practical preparation — from what to tell your DJ to how your dress might affect movement
Optional choreography — if you'd like some special touches, we can shape something beautiful. But you'll never be pushed into a rigid routine
Why it works:
Authenticity: your first dance will match your vibe and comfort level, feeling authentically you
Flexibility: You can adapt it on the day if your nerves kick in
Low pressure: You don’t need to rehearse intensely or worry about forgetting steps
Most importantly… Connection over perfection! The focus is on interaction, emotion and chemistry, not technical execution (no-one is expecting a Strictly showstopper!)
Investment in Joy, Not Just Steps
I’m really mindful that learning the steps is only part of the puzzle. I’ve helped lots of couples with all the practical details that can help the moment feel more relaxed and joyful, for example picking the right song and version (and what to do if the live band plays it differently to the version you’ve heard on Spotify!), how to move gracefully in your wedding outfit and shoes, the perfect first dance start and finish (no standing awkwardly in silence while waiting for the music to start), venue logistics, what to tell your DJ/emcee… and more!
And as daunting as it sounds, the moves you learn with me aren't just for your wedding day. They're skills you'll carry with you to anniversaries, friends' weddings, and spontaneous kitchen dances years from now. You're not just investing in one dance – you're investing in confidence and connection that lasts.
Ready to make your first dance magical?
Book a free 20 minute discovery call with me where we can talk about your wedding, how you're feeling about your first dance and explore how DansTogether can help you create a memorable moment that feels completely, naturally, beautifully you.
Because at the end of the day, your guests won't remember every step – they'll remember how happy you looked together. And that's exactly what I’m here to help you achieve.
With love
Danielle x
Founder DansTogether | Wedding Dance Coach | Former Nervous Dancer Helper-in-Chief
